Inquiry

Ceremony begins before the day itself.

If you’re considering working together, the first step is a conversation — not a booking and not a pitch. This is a chance to see whether the tone, timing, and responsibility of the moment feel aligned.

I read every inquiry personally.

Before You Reach Out

You don’t need to have everything figured out.
You do need to care about how this moment is handled.

I may be a good fit if:

• you want language written specifically for you
  
  

• you value calm presence over performance
  
  

• you’re looking for something considered, not rushed
  
  

I may not be a good fit if:

• you’re looking for the fastest or cheapest option
  
  

• you want a ceremony built from templates
  
  

• you need constant reassurance or last-minute improvisation
  
  

Not every inquiry becomes a booking — and that’s intentional.

What to Include

When you reach out, a few details help orient the conversation:

• What kind of ceremony are you planning?
  (wedding, memorial, commitment, end-of-life, other)
  
  

• Where and when will it take place?
  
  

• Who will be present in the room?
  
  

• What matters most to you about how this moment feels?
  
  

You don’t need to write an essay.
Clarity matters more than length.

What Happens Next

If the timing and scope feel aligned, I’ll respond to schedule a conversation.

If it’s not a fit, I’ll say so directly and respectfully.

Either way, you’ll hear back.

A Note on Timing

I officiate a limited number of ceremonies each month.
Advance notice is strongly preferred.

Time-sensitive situations — particularly funerals or end-of-life ceremonies — are handled with care whenever possible.

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If this approach feels right, you’re welcome to reach out.

There’s no obligation beyond the conversation.

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